The Yoga Sanctuary | meditation https://www.theyogasanctuary.biz Yoga classes and private Yoga sessions in Punta Gorda, FL Tue, 30 Apr 2024 17:04:08 +0000 en hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 https://www.theyogasanctuary.biz/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/cropped-Yoga_Sanctuary_Flower-32x32.png The Yoga Sanctuary | meditation https://www.theyogasanctuary.biz 32 32 Retreat, Reset, & Rejuvenate https://www.theyogasanctuary.biz/retreat_reset_rejuvenate/ Fri, 10 Mar 2023 12:40:19 +0000 http://theyogasanctuary.biz/staging/?p=8103
by Jennifer French

Hmmm, it feels like something’s wrong. It’s hard to put a finger on what. Some vague feeling of losing track of ourselves.  Worn down by our daily routines and obligations, an undetected general fatigue builds up gradually over time…Or, maybe life throws us an unexpected curve ball, striking us with a family sickness, a loved one’s death; we are overwhelmed…Or, perhaps, life is idling fairly along, a little miss here and a little miss there, but overall, we are… “just fine.”

These are all signs that we are overdue for a tune-up, a routine health maintenance, a little preventative soul care to recharge our life force. This is when it might be in our best interest to create some space from our day-to-day life, leave our worries behind, and reset ourselves. Ah, yes… a retreat.

A retreat is an occasion to step back from our mundane world and find the time and space to focus inward. There are many types of retreats to meet a wide variety of interests—writers’ retreats, artists’ retreats, spiritual retreats, walking retreats, silent retreats, and more. The common element among all of these is this concept of “retreating.”

The word retreat itself comes from the Latin retrahere, which means to pull back. The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines retreat as “the act or process of withdrawing.” The Oxford Dictionary defines it as “a quiet or secluded place where one can relax and rest” or “a period of seclusion for the purposes of prayer and meditation.”

Jennifer sitting on the rocks at Playa Hermosa, Costa Rica

These definitions lead us to the heart of what going on retreat is fundamentally about: taking the time to pause and go inward to get in touch with our deeper selves, needs, desires, and goals. It is a time to readjust our perspective on life.

Climbing upward out of the twists and turns of the dense forest path into the crisp, blue mountain air, it allows us to rediscover clarity and a bit of peace. We then can bring back a fresh perspective into our daily lives, allowing us to again meet our more immediate challenges with grace and equanimity.

As we may imagine, the longer the retreat, the more intense the experience tends to be. Longer retreats are often designed with plenty of unscheduled leisure time throughout the day, so we may stroll and nap as we please. Others can be intensives that might have full day schedules, carefully constructed for participants to get the very most out of this precious, self-care time.

Just as there are many styles of retreats, there are also many ways of approaching a retreat. We can travel faraway, or we may choose a shorter more convenient experience close to home. There are lots of opportunities to pack up our bags, get on a plane, and travel miles and miles away, creating that much-needed clear boundary of space around us that is so often hard to find when at home. This is what comes to mind for most—an exotic spa in a tropical locale. In an ideal world, we would be able to jet off several times a year to foreign lands to refresh and replenish. Does this mean that we must travel long distances to have an effective or transformative retreat?

Closer to home, we could attempt to simply turn off the phone and the television, let our friends and family know that we won’t be available for the next few days, and create the space right where we are. But all too often this can be a disappointing challenge as we are so easily drawn back into the world around us and the things that need to be done… the floor that needs to be cleaned, the emails that need to be answered, the dinner that needs to be made, and on and on it goes…

The long-weekend or day retreat is a fantastic way to keep both the fun and the adventure and, at the same time, greatly benefit from the structure and guidance of a formal retreat leader. Through her knowledge and experience, the retreat leader helps to create a truly healthy and revitalizing opportunity. These long-weekends or single day retreats often offer participants a kind of reset, a pause that we can more easily sneak into our life to help keep us centered and balanced. These shorter retreats tend to be a bit more focused, with practices and activities to help direct the experience and enhance the intention of going inward. Sometimes these practices are self-practices which may include periods of individual silence for reading, writing, and contemplation. Other times there may be group practices such as yoga classes or meditations. These more accessible weekend or day-long experiences combine the best of the faraway with the best of the closer to home: the critical separation of personal space with ease, affordability, and the focused guidance of a retreat leader.

In the end, the why, where, and how long of going on retreat can only be answered by you and your individual needs. Whatever your reason for wanting to retreat, for wanting to pause and connect inward, it is your reason. The new and unexpected challenges, the disorientations, the loss of one’s sense of self, and the general fatigue of routines and obligations often push us toward the great need to get away from it all. Yet once we realize the power of retreating, we can then use this profound tool as a form of preventative self-care, allowing us to find the ability to meet all that life brings us with a rejuvenating sense of peace, clarity, and equanimity.

Stay in the Know…

The Yoga Sanctuary regularly offers retreats of all lengths from the simple (and local) day retreat to week-long adventures afar. Be sure to stay connected! Follow our Facebook Page or sign up to be the first to learn about our next retreat! 

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Cultivating Gratitude at Thanksgiving & All Year Through https://www.theyogasanctuary.biz/cultivate-gratitude/ Fri, 05 Nov 2021 20:48:03 +0000 http://theyogasanctuary.biz/staging/?p=2109
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As Thanksgiving nears, the mind and heart are invited to consider gratitude, the emotion of expressing appreciation. This week, we become more aware of the people, things, and situations for which we are thankful. The practice of cultivating gratitude is part of the science of positive psychology. Studies have found that gratitude can increase levels of well-being and happiness in those who cultivate it.

But we don’t need science to prove that gratitude feels good. Sit for a moment and think about the things you are most grateful for. The things that first come to mind might be family, close friends, a stable career, fulfilling activities, a comfortable home, or good health. Feeling grateful for these things brings about a sense of happiness and fulfillment. When cultivating gratitude, this is a great place to start.

Now, let’s take the practice one step further: Once you’ve experienced gratitude for those things most dear to you, begin to expand your gratitude to those things you might not consider as deserving much thanks. You might be grateful that the grocery store is close to your home. Or, you might cultivate gratitude when you finish a yoga class, being thankful to yourself for giving the time and space to practice. Giving thanks for these everyday events will help you to notice the small things you might usually take for granted.

Next, take your cultivation of gratitude to the next level: Try to be thankful for the not-so-pleasant things in life. You might be thankful for that fifth red light (in a row!), because it helped you cultivate patience, and possibly saved you from an accident. Or, you might be thankful for that overly talkative relative, because you know that, despite the excessive chattiness, she would be there for you if you needed her. In your yoga practice, cultivate gratitude for your most nemesis of poses. Be thankful for the lessons the asana brings you, or for those lessons that have not yet revealed themselves. This will help deepen your practice.

Cultivating gratitude for the little things, the big things, and the difficult things, has the potential to change your perspective in a very positive way. Many experts recommend maintaining a gratitude journal, a notebook in which you record the things you are grateful for each day. You could also make it a habit to share with your family the things you are thankful for each night at dinner, taking your Thanksgiving tradition into the rest of your year.

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Virasana: The Hero’s Pose—Great for Your Knees (unless it’s not) https://www.theyogasanctuary.biz/virasana/ Wed, 28 Apr 2021 07:13:43 +0000 http://theyogasanctuary.biz/staging/?p=943
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By Jennifer French

 

Virasana, or the Hero’s Pose, is a commonly used sitting or meditation posture. Those that have difficulty taking a cross-legged position often find the pose to be more accessible and comfortable. Vira, the root word for virasana, translates to hero. You may wonder how a simple and humble kneeling position came to be known as such. It all stems from the story of the humble Hanuman.

In Myths of the Asanas, Alanna Kaivalya and Arjuna van der Kooji explore the stories behind many of our modern yoga posture names. They tell the story of how the half mortal, half divine child, Anjaneya, came to take the form of a monkey and the name Hanuman, who then grew into a strong warrior and great friend of King Ram.

Sent on a dangerous mission to rescue Ram’s captured wife, Sita, Hanuman dropped down to his knees in prayer creating a version of the shape we know today as the Hero’s Pose. Hanuman “knelt down to pray for the grace to do the impossible,” forgetting that “he was already capable of achieving his goal.” The story goes on… and Hanuman does, indeed, save the day along with Sita.

It is this humble and divine hero who forgets his divinity and moves forward with simple faith that we hope to embody when taking the virasana…

Try this:
  1. Kneel on the floor with your knees close together and your heels slightly wider than your hips. Reach behind your knees and draw the calf muscles down and away from the back of your knees. See video below for more about this!
  2. Lower your seat down between your feet. Let your sit bones meet the floor. See that your toes point directly behind you and your heels point straight up to the ceiling. Let your heels be flush to your hips.
  3. Rest your hands on top of your thighs. Inhale and lengthen your spine up. Maintain the length in your spine and as you exhale feel your sit bones ground down into the earth.
  4. Keep the natural curves of your spine and relax your shoulders. Stay for as many breaths as you feel comfortable.
Tips:

Is your seat nowhere near touching the ground?

  • Many people, if not most, find that bringing their seat to the ground causes discomfort in the knees and/or thighs. If your feel any discomfort at all, raise your sit bones by bringing a block underneath you. Continue to add height until you find comfort in both the knees and thighs.

Do your knees just not bend that much?

  • Place support (a blanket or bolster) behind your knees, between the thighs and the calves.

Feeling a lot of pressure on your shins or the tops of your feet?

  • Place a blanket beneath your knees, shins, and feet to provide cushion for your lower legs.
Some things to work on:

If you find that virasana is a real challenge but would like to explore the possibility of it becoming a bit easier, consider adding some other postures into your practice such a Warrior 1 & 2 or Malasana. By slowly working on increasing the range of movement and stabilizing the knees and ankles, you may find that taking virasana begins to change for you. Be sure to keep an eye open as we add a few videos to support you in this exploration!

And don’t forget:

While you might hear some yoga teachers say that virasana is a great pose for your knees and ankles, lots and lots of times, it just isn’t! So be sure to listen to your body and if the posture doesn’t work for you, let it go and sit in a way that feels right for YOUR body. Recognizing what works for you is what makes a strong yoga practice, not the postures that your body can or cannot take.

 

Videos:
  1. How to take virasana with props
  2. A simple practice to develop virasana
  3. Ways to move when in virsana and variations of reclined (supta) virasana
  4. A simple review of how to take virasana: an oldie but goodie with Bonnie!

Stay in the know with The Yoga Sanctuary by following us on Facebook!

You can connect with Jennifer directly through her Instagram page!

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Follow Your Breath: A Guided Meditation https://www.theyogasanctuary.biz/follow-your-breath-a-guided-meditation/ Thu, 09 Apr 2020 19:43:35 +0000 http://theyogasanctuary.biz/staging/?p=6746 Led by Jennifer French

 

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Using the Sensory Practice to Move Inward https://www.theyogasanctuary.biz/using-the-sensory-practice-to-move-inward/ Tue, 31 Dec 2019 16:43:12 +0000 http://theyogasanctuary.biz/staging/?p=6718 A Guided Meditation
Led by Melissa Goodwin
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Melissa fell in love with yoga at the age of 10, when she and her mother attended a community yoga class. She is grateful to have found her long-time teachers, Tias and Surya Little, when she moved to Santa Fe, New Mexico in 2007, and earned both her 200-hour and 500-hour teaching certifications through their Prajna Yoga program. Melissa also earned her Restorative Yoga Teacher Certification through Judith Hanson Lasater’s program in 2009. She taught for five years in Santa Fe before moving to Florida in 2013, where she joined the teaching staff at The Yoga Sanctuary. Always a student, Melissa is currently exploring how various yoga practices can assist in healing brain trauma and nervous system dysfunction. You can follow Melissa’s work at writeryogini.blogspot.com.

 

This meditation explores the concept of pratyahara through the teaching of the Bhagavad Gita.

 

Shining by the light of the senses

Yet freed from all the senses

Unattached, yet maintaining all,

Free from qualities yet experiencing qualities

Outside and inside beings,

Those that are moving and those that are still,

Because of its subtlety,

This is not to be comprehended.

It is far away and also near.

~ Bhagavad Gita, chapter 13, verses 14 & 15

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Mindfulness Meditation https://www.theyogasanctuary.biz/mindfulness-meditation/ Sun, 29 Dec 2019 22:05:43 +0000 http://theyogasanctuary.biz/staging/?p=6472
The Bell of Mindfulness

The Bell of Mindfulness

Between stimulus and response there is a space.

In that space is our power to choose our response.
In our response lies our growth and our freedom.
~ Viktor E. Frankl
Many of us live our lives as if on autopilot, constantly being destabilized and reacting to what we encounter. The practices of mindfulness and meditation are powerful tools that change our relationship to what we encounter in life, providing a window of opportunity between stimulus and response. What we discover in that space is our ability to reduce our own stress, to pay closer attention while appreciating the fullness and richness of life, and to develop good will for ourselves and others.
Mindfulness meditation, in the tradition of Vipassana or insight meditation, is a gentle yet thorough meditation technique based in the oldest of Buddhist teachings. It involves paying close attention to sensation and teaches us how to “see things as they are,” ultimately allowing one to see the true nature of existence.
The following recordings are offered to help support our Introduction to Mindfulness Series. However, they can be used at any time to help support you on your own Mindfulness Meditation path. Listen, pay attention, and enjoy.
To download any of these talks and be able to access when off-line, right click on the link download button near the talk and choose “Save As”
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The Seventh Limb of Yoga: Dhyana https://www.theyogasanctuary.biz/dhyana/ Tue, 05 Nov 2019 13:04:25 +0000 http://theyogasanctuary.biz/staging/?p=2287 meditationDhyana builds on the previous limb, dharana (one-pointed concentration). Dhyana is meditation. Think of dhyana as the maintenance of dharana for longer periods of time. When the mind is focused on one object, or activity, without interruption, this is dhyana. Says B.K.S. Iyengar, “When the flow of concentration is uninterrupted, the state that arises is dhyana (meditation).”

The continued practice of dharana will eventually become dhyana. Dhyana is the second limb of Samyama, the simultaneous practice of the three last limbs of yoga. For meditation, Iyengar recommends placing concentration specifically on the breath because, “nothing penetrates deeper than breath or is more pervasive.” The breath is a common point of focus during meditation, as it is easily accessible—certainly, we can always come back to the breath.

To put dhyana into perspective, think about when you sit for meditation. Let’s say you begin to focus on the breath. Perhaps you choose to notice how the belly moves in and out with each breath. This moment of concentration is dharana. Then you think about how your foot feels—this is a distraction. Then back to the breath. Inhale. Exhale. Inhale. Exhale. Then you think about how you need to stop at the grocery store on the way home. You think about what you need to buy there. Then you notice your mind is distracted and guide it back to the breath. This is the mind. The mind is always on the go, chasing thoughts. Dharana seeks to rein the attention back to the moment—to one single point.

When the moments of dharana become longer, say, a few minutes or more of maintaining your attention on the breath without distractions, the transition to dhyana has taken place. When the mind no longer chases each distracted thought, but rather remains concentrated on the object of choice, without interruption, dhyana is experienced. Dhyana opens up space, so to speak, for the calm that sets the stage for a deeper connection to be made in the next limb, Samadhi.

Next time you sit for meditation, notice the stream of concentration. Do the moments of concentration alternate with many thoughts? Do you notice longer stretches of time when you are able to maintain your attention on your breath (or the object of your focus)? Observe the patterns without judgment. Remember, this is practice. It will always be just practice.

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The Sixth Limb of Yoga: Dharana https://www.theyogasanctuary.biz/dharana/ Fri, 01 Nov 2019 19:54:10 +0000 http://theyogasanctuary.biz/staging/?p=2240 concentrationDharana is the state of one-pointed concentration, when the mind is able to continuously focus on one object without distraction. The limbs leading up to dharana serve to build up to it: asana builds strength, making the body more comfortable; pranayama helps to build focus of the mind; and pratyahara helps remove sensory distractions so that in dharana, one-pointed concentration is achieved.

Dharana is the first limb of Samyama, the simultaneous practice of the three last limbs of yoga. With dharana the focus moves inward. According to Desikachar, “This is what happens in dharana: we create the conditions for the mind to focus its attention in one direction instead of going out in many different directions. We encourage one particular activity of the mind and, the more intense it becomes, the more the other activities of the mind fall away.” He goes on to say that this one point can be anything at all, but it is always just a single object.

The object of concentration could be a certain chakra (energy center), mantra (sound), mental image, or anything you choose. For example, when you sit quietly and maintain your focus only on the breath for an extended period of time, you are practicing dharana. At first, the mind will wander to all sorts of thoughts, but over time, with practice, the distractions fade and the mind becomes more focused.

The practice of dharana can be particularly helpful if you find yourself getting caught up in emotions. During such times, the mind fills with distracted thoughts, many not even based on reality. (Think of the last assumption you made when you were upset. Often, these assumptions are not even real, and thus, not based on reality.) Taking some time to detach from negative thought patterns by first practicing pranayama (to center), then pratyahara (to remove sensory distractions), and finally dharana, can be a great practice for times when your thoughts seem to overtake you.

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The Art of Self Practice: Why Are You Here? https://www.theyogasanctuary.biz/the-art-of-self-practice-why-are-you-here/ Thu, 30 May 2019 13:59:43 +0000 http://theyogasanctuary.biz/staging/?p=6396 By Jennifer French
Prajna Yoga Temple

Stepping into the Temple

I often reflect on how fortunate I am to be on this yogic path. It has provided me with tools and skills that help keep me afloat when the day to day challenges of life get even more challenging. It’s a blessing to have mentors to go to, teachers that help hone one’s skills, thus calming and quieting what can feel like a thunderously noisy body, mind, or spirit!

My teachers, Tias and Surya Little of Prajna Yoga, in Santa Fe, New Mexico, have a yoga center – right on their property – that has become a second home to so many of their students, including me. It’s very different from what we have here at The Yoga Sanctuary. There are no weekly class schedules, no drop-in 60-minute classes, just day-long, weekend-long, week-long or month-long FULL immersions. The topics very and for many of the Prajna students, it is less about the topic of study and more about just being there, in Tias and Surya’s presence, absorbing their knowledge and experience, nourishing one’s spirit. It’s also a time to connect with the greater Prajna sangha. Students come from all over the world, many have been there before, others there for the first time.

This last visit to New Mexico was a week-long immersion called The Art of Self Practice. A session long put off… I was, in fact, unsure if I would ever attend. First, it didn’t ever seem to work with my available timing. Second, I already have a self-practice – I am comfortable with my sitting (meditation) practice, and competent in my asana (posture) practice. In other words, I know what to do. It’s just a matter of doing it.

Why are you here?

This year, the timing worked and my thoughts about the being in this immersion changed. As I said before, it no longer really matters what the topic is; it’s just important to me to be there. So, there I was, grateful to be in the Prajna Temple.

Each extended immersion begins with on opening circle. We introduce ourselves, say a bit about who we are and why we are there. My name is Jennifer. I come from SW Florida. I teach, I direct a yoga studio. I’ve been studying with Tias and Surya for many years now. I’m here to fill my cup…

It’s a long day… eight hours. We eat lunch together. This is time when we can develop our connection to the sangha. But just as in everyday life, one tends to connect with some more than others… For whatever reason, you find yourself deep in conversation with some people and perhaps have only said a brief hello to others.

Why are you here?

About mid-way through this session, I was chatting with a fella from California. It was his first time at Prajna. He is fairly new to the yoga practice, but hungry for knowledge. We were talking about our experiences on the yoga path and what it was like to study under Tias and Surya. Sometime in the middle of this conversation he paused. He looked at me and said, “So, you have a yoga studio, you’re a long-time practitioner and teacher… Why are you here?”

What seemed so very obvious to me, was unclear to another. A person studies, practices, studies more, practices more, and on it goes. They become more practiced, more proficient. Yet still, we must seek out our teachers. We seek out guidance and support. We seek out inspiration and community. Even feedback and insight into the true question of why are we here?

My triangle pose might look different from someone who is taking Triangle Pose for the first time. I might even be able to help you a bit with your Triangle Pose, but that does not mean that I am done. My Triangle Pose will never be perfect. No one’s ever will be. We need our teachers’ eyes, we need their experience, their guidance. They have walked just a bit farther down the path… and the path never ends.

That, my new friend, is why I am here.

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Forever Young: Maintaining and Restoring Your Vitality https://www.theyogasanctuary.biz/forever-young-maintaining-and-restoring-your-vitality/ Tue, 15 Jan 2019 00:18:29 +0000 http://theyogasanctuary.biz/staging/?p=6138 By Carrie Demers, MD

Dr. Carrie DemersAs a culture, we are obsessed with looking young.  We dye our hair, whiten our teeth, use botox, have surgeries!  – all attempts to hide the signs of our encroaching age.  However, what we are truly seeking is not to look younger, but to feel younger.   We want to be vibrant and healthy, strong and confident,  vigorous and purposeful.  These states, yoga and Ayurveda say, are our birthright.  Our bodies and minds are capable of youthful resilience at every age.

Ayurveda, the sister-science to yoga and the traditional medical system of India, insists we  can retain our vigor if we are willing to pay attention to the way we live.  As we age, we can get stuck in old, unhealthy habits, that cause us to accumulate toxins, and sap our energy.  In this state, it is easy to surrender to the societal belief that “withering with age” is inevitable.  But Ayurveda doesn’t accept this verdict.  Instead, it recommends that we rejuvenate ourselves by dropping the habits that siphon off our energy in favor of habits that support the body’s natural intelligence and healing capacity.  Perhaps we stop overstimulating ourselves with caffeine and electronic media (constantly!).  Perhaps we take more seriously our nutrition and exercise requirements.

Modern medicine is beginning to see the value in Ayurveda’s approach.  There is mounting evidence that diet, lifestyle, sleep and stress reduction are our fountains of youth!   These basics help keep our nervous and endocrine (hormone) systems in balance, which then support the rest of our systems in staying healthy.   Science is also studying the importance of our microbiome and digestive capacity – and its far-reaching effects on every other system, including our minds.   Dementia is an epidemic – but studies are showing that mild cognitive impairment can be reversed with a lifestyle approach that includes daily relaxation/yoga practices, whole foods diet, and regular aerobic exercise – and in some cases, some basic supplements as needed (Vitamin D, turmeric, CoQ10, anti-oxidants, probiotics).  [https://www.alzheimersweekly.com/2014/10/25-ways-to-mend-memory.html]

Modern medicine agrees with Yoga and Ayurveda about another approach to well-being: meditation. Multiple scientific studies show that meditation is good for our brains and our peace of mind (yay!) – but science tends to sidestep the why of that.  Ayurveda and Yoga are more able to address the spiritual effects of meditation, and how it helps us connect to a deeper dimension of our selves.   They tell us that awareness of this part – our true nature – taps us into an immense, inexhaustible  well of energy, vibrancy, intuitive wisdom, and joy.  The catch is that it takes determination  – and regular practice! – to establish and maintain that connection.  But over time, with consistency, the fruits of our practice become more and more evident.  We become clear, purposeful, compassionate, vibrant and joyful.  Even post-retirement!

The external world makes demands on our energy and time.  And it is easy to keep our vision focused outward – and spend all our energy there.   But ultimately, the internal world gives us more return on our investment.   It is there, at the core of our being that we abide—ageless, limitless, and eternally vital.  If this is to be an experience rather than an act of faith, we must turn our attention inward and meet ourselves there at the center of all that is. That is the purpose of life and the gift of meditation.

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